Ive already told his then gf that we were still having sex and she decided to stay with him, so o well. But shit change and he grabbed my attention. The person who posted on here earlier this year. He drank up all the water. But still, he tries to ask me to hook up during exchanges with our kids. he knew this and thought that if he got me pregnant i would somehow magically want to be with him when in fact it made matters worse. It basically means that he loves you so much and desires to have a family with you. Guys follow me always did always will I will never follow them! My bf don't want to talk about his child mother Everytime I try to bring up something he shut it done. Theres no need to meet her. It helped me though thNKS, It depends on the people. When he goes down on you, insist that he have a few bites of vegetables too. I don't get it . duckling. N the messed up part is I prlly won't ever try n get into another relationship cause my trust is soo messed up!! Perhaps he wants to mostly keep his kids separate from his romantic life, or he is taking slower to blend his relationship with his home life. But she had issues and would call all the time, didn't have any "friends", and had a hard life and slowly they became friends which I was against because I knew she wanted to be with him. If he doesnt follow through with setting boundaries with his baby mama, then he's a ****. And hopefully, she can finally be back in my arms. It's not his wife it's him he's letting it happen ( he's an a**hole), any guy that leaves his family is dirt! Understand and keep this in the forefront of your mindit's not about you or your relationship with your man. I recently filed for, That's what I'm afraid of I been with my dude for 9 years when I met him he had 3 kids all girls and When I was stuck in a different country for for a year he made a forth and too my luck it turned out to be a boy. by the women who had his last daughter. The problem is i messed up the relationship and now shes afraid ima do it again. jst wish there was somebody that could actually love me for me! I think people often underestimate how big of a deal it really is to have a child with someone especially if you have that child with someone you dont plan on staying in a romantic relationship with. I've been loyal to my husband! The day after that, he had her bringing him to my subdivision. I still dealt with him knowing this , I also knew the start of our relationship was nothing serious , and it takes time for things to go or get serious. There's plenty of men out there who are looking for a good woman. cuz u know u have to deal with the drama that his baby mama will cuz. Ask yourself these questions first: 6. These deep conversations not only mean that he may . Well when your boyfriend calls you "baby girl" it is just basically a pet name. I call my kids little love, baby, buddy, doll, honey, etc. But when I bring it up to him it's a argument.. Makes no sense bc his father wasn't in his life so why would he put our daughter through that knowing how it feels?! Depending on how the relationship ended you can still be great friends, both involved parents, both civil enough to talk about kids issues, or still friends enough to have a quick chat once in a while, but that doesn't mean you still love her or want her back. This is not a good way to start anything with a cheater! They are a couple guys in school and when they found out I had a daughter they said oh no , I am too young to be taking care of a child that ain't mine I said uh I wasn't even thinking that's far I thought we were friends and that's the end of that lol. Then one thing led to another, then here I am pregnant. One thing I can tell you is there is a bond between two people who have shared a part of their lives together and brought children into their lives. He compares me to her sometimes. I was so loyal to my daughters father. After all, those are all great . There is also the respect factor when deals with another man's kids. He is being romantic. I have no attraction nor care about my daughters mother. She told me that when she confronted her boyfriend about the excontacting him after hours, he pretty much responded with, Shes my childs mother. She's expected to be a nun. Xper 5 Age: 27. And she has a very tight relationship with his family. 3. He's Making It Clear He Wants Children with You. We all need to love ourselves more so we don't hurt our children and continue the cycle. It's actually about his baby's mama and his relationship with her. It's already too messy and you're being treated like a dirty little secret. Your email address will not be published. Do I just sit here abd get my heart broken day aftsr day and pretend I don't know? The ex wife kept bothering him with insignificant things. If he doesnt stop saying it after youve asked him to, thats when you do have a problem. I couldn't keep that baby knowing that I was pregnant by someone who would connivingly do that just to cover up cheating and to make it seem like I gave him something. It is really not the most common term of endearment, but calling someone "baby mama" or "baby daddy" is a pet name of sorts. If he called you mama in front of people then it would either be the case that he naturally says it or that he was showing more overt attraction for you. The Mother and the child are coming from Honduras and so they have to stay with him in his house because they have no where to go. Why do you feel the need to prove your worth? My spirit was completely crushed by the time I called it quits. You hit it on the nail. She actively tried to make his life miserable and he just wanted to never see or speak to her again, so no I wouldn't say that all guys will always love their babymamas. I'm a business man and I currently live abroad, but I'm looking for a woman who's as dedicated as you. I wouldn't piss on my ex if he were on fire. I am having the same issue with my bf, where he is hiding everything from me, saying he loves me but then turning around and telling her he misses her etc. I call my boyfriend heartbeat and he call me mama sometimes he change and call me queen. Do I act crazy? If the ex is the mother or father of their child, they will need to be in contact. My grandma was the one who taught me. We had ALOT of attraction and chemistry, but absolutely no compatability. My boyfriend and I've been together for a year now, I dnt have any problem with him having kids. When a man truly trusts you and shares his heart with you, it is a sign he likes you romantically. Babe. You should never settle for being second choice. When he decided to come back he asked to send him money and I did and he was back the same day . "If she constantly asks intrusive questions, your partner needs to be able to reply: 'That is not up for discussion.'". Please dont bash a real woman for what im about to write. 11. When he throws a new one at me, I tell him "She's not the one. They move here first, leave the wife and kid behind, when they get their citizenship they have the wife move here. Don't take all that **** about he don't want to **** her off because he really should be worried about your feelings first then hers for his kids sake. what is going to happen after that child turn 18. baby mamas are just ****, and those typical moms need to get a life because if she had somebody serious or a husband she wouldn't be doing that. For a while when I got back he was all about me and didn't pay her much mind he didn't get confirmation it was his son until the boy was like 5/6 and that's when he started being nice and there for her she would tell him all her problems he did the same they ended up ****in on the low i actually was told there dude and I didn't belt it but my dumb ass realized what it was when his car was outside a motel. I really loved him and thought what we had was special. Take this advice from a woman who is married to a man who has a evil baby mama; just remember everything will work out for the good if your man stand firm when dealing with her and don't give in to her stupid games. Well I'm falling for a man with 2 "babymamas" recently and it sucks. He's cheater on both you and the baby mama! They like ages between 21-25. He is a cake eater. Know who's talking to whom when. He was incarcerated and he married for sex his BFF told me why didnt I make that happen for our kids at Least. I can relate! If he reacts to seeing you by uncrossing his arms, sitting upright, adjusting his hair or clothing, raising his eyebrows and smiling, his pupils dilate, he makes space for you and he watches you as you enter the room then it would be more likely that he is attracted to you. bigles2000. wow you really need to chill out because no body is a worthless. To hit on me after 8 months of not sleeping with him and I kiss him back and now I feel.like a fool because..i know i would still sleep with him ..smh I say u left me for your ex and is engaged 6 months after you left me..he.told me once before I can't choose I said yes you can u you did already I need good advice because iam still in love with him Idk how that can be ..he hurt me bad..sorry for the long message just need some flood advice, Yeah I said same thing but i am a hypocrite because I almost slept with my sons father AND. He doesn't text me constantly anymore like he used to, he has gone a day with out texting me and he just calls me the next day like nothing happened. But I have more than a few reasons why I wont' let my partner call me mommy, and they're all rooted in the fact that, well, enough has changed about me post-baby already. Six years later he met me and now we are married . I go forward not backwards! Body language plays a key role in our daily lives. An occasional message late at night is fine if it's . To me, it implies that we were never in a relationship and he accidentally knocked me up which is not true. N always remember God made everything in two and so he will give you the right man! I said dont forget you blocked me of all access to you. It's different. "Right now yea. If he is your friend then it would be more likely that he was showing that he wants to be more than just friends with you and you should consider if he shows other signs of it when he is around you. Yes theyre are always memories and depending on how long ya have been together. Before and while I was pregnant. This post will help you understand why he called you mama and help you understand why other guys would call you mama in the future. My boyfriend cannot put boundaries with his baby mama, she calls whenever she likes, he cannot answer her calls in front of me, I found him sending pictures of his late mother to her with crying emojis..this is disturbing but I dont think I'm ready to accept that he is not ready to put me first and our relationship. She isnt his ex. The goal is always to de-triangle. Can my boyfriend still love his baby mama? It's a classic story. He knew that would kill me. When his male friend from work calls, your boyfriend has no problem taking the call in front of you. Of course, its not the only way to show that hes committed to you, but its a good start! My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now and I like to think we have a strong relationship. 9. Plus I learnt from him and his family that his ex treated him like sh*t. Well, I have a unique situation. Well yeah. women are spiteful ****. Which never happened. I don't know how he expects to get anywhere with anyone just being the way he is . I think you're probably right that there's still something going on between them. Click to reveal 3. If your bf/gf left the baby daddy/momma then I would assume they don't want them! If the relationship was toxic then this is how it can affect you. Its hard to say for sure without asking, but I know for a fact some guys will say it as a way to test the waters! Or maybe hes been engaging in inappropriate behavior with the mother of his child on the low and thats why hes hesitant to let her know shes doing the absolute most. Maybe this whole love thing isn't for me! Not all men will have a "bond" or be attracted to their baby mama. Why waste your time with someone that wouldn't be proud to be with you and let the world know it? Reply. He stays in frequent contact with her. (Explained!). Unless baby daddy is a prize husband and father, I'd stop worrying about him and his ex. You should be ashamed of yourself. Mami . Their loyalties are with him and his child, not OP or his wife, necessarily. Sometimes he would go out with them while I'm at home with our daughter and won't come back till 6 in the morning. So last night I had texted my boyfriend something really nice a memory and such. If he does call you mama because he wants to be more than just friends with you then it would be likely that hed show signs of liking you such as those above when he is around you. Is my man still in love with his baby mama? Got intertwined with one another and nothing else seemed to matter to them. You need to stop listening to baby momma. +1 y. The thought of my daughter being parented by another man rips me apart inside and its always been very hard for me to cope with. Leaving boyfriend of 5 months due to baby mama spending night with him. He wants to run around , and be with multiple girls and imagine he gets one pregnant, they won't even hesitate to put him on childsupport .he'll be ****ed cause he ain't got a job. Maybe he likes all the attention hes getting from his girlfriendand from his ex. I dont bother him I do everything for my son .. and she never contacted me about what happened almost like she dislikes the baby because he cheated with me thats his story and she chose to believe that, he always tried to sleep with me, when his out of town for work hes constantly calling me on FaceTime I chose not to answer and entertained him, I want you to do more for my son not flirting with me! Really I feel sorry for the current and future women in my life, because I would drop them in a heartbeat to go back and try to make things work. Don't have kids unless your absolutely sure about your partner, and have had years to learn and understand them, otherwise theres a good chance your going to live a long life of unfulfilled mediocrity. This is a clear signal that he's really into you, wants a relationship, and is showing it by calling you baby. Why do u think he's doing this family thing all of a sudden. But maybe that might change since he wants to be civil he wants to be happy . And probably always will be. I don't make him pay child support or anything. No. Anyway i told him look I'm done here ur baby mama like really how u leave elegance and go back to the ratchet life?
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